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You are here: Home / Blogging / Too Much on One’s Plate: The Writer’s Block Saga

Too Much on One’s Plate: The Writer’s Block Saga

September 10, 2012 by Maricel Rivera 32 Comments

In the case of writer’s block, there are no favorite students.

No exceptions.

No one above the law.

Writer’s block can affect practically anybody, even those born with ballpoint pens in their mouths.

And much as we know writer’s block can hinder every writer’s ability to write effectively and productively, it’s worth pointing out some factors that may contribute to writer’s block.

As a Chinese adage puts it, “If you know neither yourself nor your enemy, you will always endanger yourself.” In this case, the enemy is writer’s block and its ability to sap a writer of creativity.

While the first point presented below may not necessarily apply to everyone, recognizing that it can contribute to writer’s block is, I believe, taking one step ahead of the opponent.

 Too much on one’s plate.

I have a confession to make. Before I found myself writing this article, I was suffering from a bad case of writer’s block. I was pretty much preoccupied. Overwhelmed, as a matter of fact.

I had my usual freelance tasks to think about, the laundry desperately calling out to me whenever I found myself in front of the kids’ room, thoughts of errands to government and financial offices, even my doctor’s office for a routine checkup that I had been postponing for a while now. And then, there’s the roof.

Dear me, something has to be done about that kitchen roof!

(Okay, that roof got me all emotional again, so let me just pause for a second here and heave a sigh.)

“If you know neither yourself nor your enemy, you will always endanger yourself.”

Given the many roles I play – full-time employee, freelancer, mother, wife, blogger – even if I were a creature from Mars or from some unheard-of galaxy, which I’m not, I recognize there are just so many things I can accomplish in a day.

If I dare be truthful now, my tendency to take on too much is something I have a lot of trouble unshackling myself from, which, more often than not, leaves me biting more than I can chew.

The solution
The solution is pretty obvious (and this applies not just to me now) – drop something out of your list of things to do.

If everything in your list seems to require your utmost attention all at the same time, this is where your prioritization skills step in. Your ability to consider your commitments against your short-term and long-term goals is what will save you from getting swamped to the point of exhaustion.

Further reading: 5 Ways to Overcome Writer’s Block

Remember, dropping something out of the to-do list involves the ability to delegate where possible, too. Since thinking about the roof makes me emotional every time, if I have one iota of self-preservation left in me, it would be wise to leave the roof to my husband to think about, right?

That way, I can concentrate on my writing and other tasks.

Conclusion
Like an ordinary balloon, we can’t pump more air than is required into our system. More air can make the balloon bigger, yes, but to a certain extent. Once the limit is reached, more air will cause the balloon to burst, reducing it to nothing more than lifeless rubber.

In the same way, our minds and bodies can only take enough. More than that, we will be rendered limited in our ability to give a task – writing, in this case – our best shot.

“All the world is birthday cake, so take a piece, but not too much.” – George Harrison

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Maricel is a regular mom juggling her time between being a mom and her full-time profession as a researcher for a top-notch financial firm. Add blogging and freelancing to the mix, and it's one crazy ride. But somehow she manages to stay sane. Maricel loves to write about various stuff - from technology to personal finance, from social issues to life in general.
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Comments

  1. fifileigh says

    September 10, 2012 at 6:42 am

    yeah, it is important to be organized by prioritizing duties, and doing short term duties first before long term duties in order to be productive.

    Reply
    • Maricel says

      September 10, 2012 at 7:52 am

      Right you are, Fifileigh. Thanks for your input!

      Reply
  2. Franc Ramon says

    September 12, 2012 at 2:33 pm

    In case of writers block, I shake things up or do things out of the blue just to break the monotony and reactivate my creative juices.

    Reply
    • Maricel says

      September 14, 2012 at 3:08 am

      I do that a lot, too, Franc. And I must say, it really works!

      Reply
    • Franc Ramon says

      September 14, 2012 at 1:58 pm

      Nothing brings back creativity like breaking the monotony.

      Reply
    • Maricel says

      September 15, 2012 at 3:34 am

      Right you are, Franc!

      Reply
  3. Montoya says

    September 13, 2012 at 7:03 am

    Excellent points. We can’t do everything even we belong to the super moms out there lol… We should give our husbands their jobs. Good writing and thanks.

    Reply
    • Maricel says

      September 14, 2012 at 3:10 am

      Thank you for the kind words, Montoya. The world is a better place when husbands do their jobs, isn’t it? Thanks for coming over today!

      Reply
  4. Rizza Gatchalian says

    September 13, 2012 at 10:48 am

    No one is immune to the writer’s block. That’s why I jot down all the ideas that pop in my head. When I can’t think of a topic to write about, I did the ideas from my reserved list.

    Reply
    • Maricel says

      September 14, 2012 at 3:12 am

      When it comes to writer’s block, there is no such thing as immunity. Yes, jotting down ideas help. Sad as it may seem, ideas fleet in and out of our consciousness. It’s best to capture them while they last. Thanks for visiting, Rizza.

      Reply
  5. Rossel says

    September 14, 2012 at 8:40 am

    Everyone can write but not everyone is writer. I am not very good in writing so I always battle with the elusive writer’s block but manage to get over it by taking a break and going out for a while. From there, I can get ideas on what to write next.

    Reply
    • Maricel says

      September 15, 2012 at 3:27 am

      I agree. And like Franc said, nothing brings back creativity than breaking the monotony.

      Reply
  6. Violy Vallester says

    September 14, 2012 at 4:53 am

    wow you are a super mom! I can’t believe it, I am still single, I only blog when I feels like it, watch tv and sort pictures or chatting with my bf during leisure time.. hehe. Now we are thinking of starting a family, well good luck to me! For sure things will turn upside down.. haha for now I will just enjoy my free time! 😉

    Reply
    • Maricel says

      September 15, 2012 at 3:26 am

      Good for you, Violy. Some people don’t have the luxury of time to watch TV and do other stuff, especially when they have too much to work on.

      In my opinion, I think it’s right that you and your boyfriend are taking the “family project” slow and easy. Like they say in Tagalog, “ang pag-aasawa, hindi parang kanin na isinubo at iluluwa kapag napaso.”

      Thanks for coming by!

      Reply
  7. Marie says

    September 14, 2012 at 11:25 am

    They say it’s nothing but an excuse but it does happen…when it hits me I usually go about an hour out running, to freshen my mind 🙂 Works all the time!

    Reply
    • Maricel says

      September 15, 2012 at 3:28 am

      Maybe I should try running to beat writer’s block, too. Thanks for dropping by, Marie!

      Reply
  8. Dennis Dolojan says

    September 14, 2012 at 2:31 pm

    clear your mind and take a break .. that is my style whenever i have this writer’s block …

    Reply
    • Maricel says

      September 15, 2012 at 3:29 am

      Nice style, Dennis!

      Reply
  9. Mai Flores says

    September 14, 2012 at 3:05 pm

    I have to take your points into heart, as I am a freelance writer myself and have completely experienced having ‘writers block’ sometimes. I actually like your attitude — I really thinks it’s a matter of delegating certain responsibilities. The brain is in fact, not meant to multi-task. I learned more about the truth in that while watching an episode from NatGeo called Test Your Brain. 🙂

    Reply
    • Maricel says

      September 15, 2012 at 3:32 am

      Thanks for the kind words, Mai!

      I’ll go check that Nat Geo episode online. I have to watch that, too. 🙂

      Reply
  10. Janine Daquio says

    September 14, 2012 at 6:03 pm

    wow.. i felt the same way.. sometimes its hard to squeeze your creative mind when you are preoccupied and with other tasks that should be done in and out of the online world. thanks for this post.

    Reply
    • Maricel says

      September 15, 2012 at 3:33 am

      Creativity just flies out of the window whenever something troubles me. Thanks for dropping by, Janine!

      Reply
  11. Teresa Martinez says

    September 14, 2012 at 10:49 pm

    This is the most sensible idea I have read today. You certainly pumped some sense into my tired mind as everything seems to be calling for my attention all at once.

    Reply
    • Maricel says

      September 15, 2012 at 3:33 am

      I’m glad it helped, Teresa. Thank you for the visit!

      Reply
  12. ralph says

    September 15, 2012 at 9:58 am

    yup, just focus on something and work the other one in your next article… that will do the trick. Yahweh bless.

    Reply
    • Maricel says

      September 15, 2012 at 7:31 pm

      Thanks for your input, Ralph!

      Reply
  13. marri says

    September 16, 2012 at 3:13 am

    Everything that is OVER is not good… We can only think better if we are not forcing our mind to ramble with many topics that will simply jeopardize our own skill or whatever talent we have.

    Reply
    • Maricel says

      September 16, 2012 at 11:10 am

      I agree 100%. Thank you, Marri, for visiting!

      Reply
  14. lanie says

    September 17, 2012 at 6:19 am

    your a great mom and a good writers.

    Reply
    • Maricel says

      September 17, 2012 at 7:09 am

      I do what I can, Lanie. Thanks for visiting!

      Reply
  15. Michael says

    October 1, 2012 at 1:41 pm

    Maricel, At first I was fearful of writer’s block but now I have learned to embrace it because it is a fact of life.

    Just like our mother’s say “If you do not have anything nice to say do not say anything at all”.

    Sure it is about talking people, but if we change the wording to fit blogging it would sound like this “If you can not write a good article do not write anything” or something like that.

    I love the Chinese adage and the one quote at the end. You covered a subject every blogger has a problem with from time to time.

    I chose my subject because it has many avenues to go down and I love the communication it creates.

    If a person can not talk about ethics they probably do not practice them much.

    Reply
    • Maricel says

      October 21, 2012 at 3:11 am

      Hey, Michael, I would have to agree that if a person doesn’t like to talk about ethics much, then yes, he/she probably has something not good going on in the ethics arena.

      Me, too, I love both the Chinese adage and the George Harrison quote.

      Thanks for visiting!

      Reply

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